Want to join our party? At SFP, we organize regular parties in and around Seattle. They are small, informal, friendly and relaxed, and of course fun! You must be between 18 and 30 to join (there are certain exceptions), but otherwise there are no criteria. At each party we keep the male-female ratio balanced, and we keep each party small - around 10 people on average. There is no pressure to participate if you don't want to, we have rules, and we believe in safe, consenting play.
How do I join SFP?
We have only two requirements:
You are between 18-30 years old. We are a little flexible on this, so if you are outside the range, you may still be permitted to join. Usually the exceptions are for couples where one partner is slightly older.
You are disease free.
If you are interested in attending one of our parties, just send an email to [email protected]. Please include the following information:
First name
Gender
Age
Sexual orientation
A rating from 1 (first time) to 10 of your experience in similar parties.
A statement that you are disease free.
A recent photo (JPG preferred, please keep it small)
Optional: a short description of yourself, or anything else you want to mention.
A low rating does not mean you will be less likely to be accepted, as we like to keep the group balanced and we take everything into consideration. We love to get beginners involved, so if this is your first time, we think it's a great place to start, and we'll make you feel very welcome!
After we receive your email, we will email you back letting you know if we think you fit our group. We may also organize an informal meeting with you, in person, where we can answer any questions you might have. Afterwards, you'll be on our party invite list!
If you are curious, but not sure you want to join yet, no problem. Just email [email protected] with your queries or concerns and we'll get back to you!
How is a party organized?
A week or so before a party is scheduled, we email all members with the date of the party. The first five (say) male and female members to reply will be sent invitations including directions to the party. The party starts at 7pm, but we allow people to arrive until 8pm. The party finishes at around midnight. When you arrive, you will be asked to pay a fee to cover costs. The fees are:
Female: $10
Male: $20
Couple (Male and Female): $20
As for the party itself, it is largely informal, and you can be as anonymous as you want. We may play introductory games, watch movies over snacks and drinks, whatever people want to do. No one is forced to participate - you can sit and watch if you want to, and you can leave at any time. We keep the group small so that people do not feel overwhelmed. Everyone is friendly and respects each other, no means no, and everyone is there to have a good time! If anyone does cause a problem, they will be told to leave immediately, and will not be invited to further parties. This has not occurred so far, and we aim to keep it that way!
Rules
You must obtain permission before any contact of a sexual nature. Safe sex is not essential but strongly recommended.
No means no!
No illegal drugs of any kind. No sharing of prescription drugs.
No fighting.
No excessive drinking.
No smoking.
No cameras of any kind.
No cell phones.
Please respect the wishes and privacy of others.
Please be considerate of others. Insulting or abusing others is grounds for being asked to leave.
We reserve the right to ask you to leave immediately for any reason.
If you have any questions, email us at the address above, and we look forward to seeing you at our next party!